A colleague asked me the other day what kind of guys I am attracted to. I said I am attracted to guys who are fit but not overly so, and who look bad ass, tattoos, piercings, the meaner the better. She then asked why. I said that guys like that give me the impression that everyday will be a surprise or an adventure, and that they are rebels who never follow the rules, and therefore life will never be boring if I went out with someone like that.
And she said that it may be that the reason why I am attracted to men like that is because there is probably a part of me that is adventurous and rebellious but not courageous enough to show to the world. I thought about it and agreed; although I do believe I'm courageous enough but the circumstance is never right - I can't dress like a rock star to work, can I?
And she asked me wouldn't it be better if I did all those impulsive, adventurous, rebellious, naughty stuff myself - and if I did that, then I open up my mind to the possibility of being attracted to more types of guys?
She maybe has a point.
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